giddyoldgoat ([info]giddyoldgoat) wrote,
@ 2008-02-23 17:05:00
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Steve Was My Friend
My dear old friend Steve Whitaker died yesterday. He was 52 years old.

I first met Steve when I was about 18 years old, and he was about 29 - so, nearly a quarter of a century ago now. As a young and unformed suburban teenager, I had never met anyone quite like Steve before - someone who not only knew seemingly everything there was to know about comics and pop music but who could also enthuse about Rivette, Sisley, Albert Ayler - high culture, low culture, any culture at all...all wrapped up in a pun, a joke, a spot-on-quote. Steve's love for THE COLOUR OF POMEGRANATES was as genuine as his passion for KONA, MONARCH OF MONSTER ISLE - it was all input, stimulus to thought, and to his own creative work. He lived and breathed the art life ALL THE TIME, and his example was inspiring and challenging and total fun. The kind of fun you think is never going to end.

Time and again, Steve made it clear to me that sharing - knowledge, time - was more than half the pleasure and always the whole point. As others have noted, Steve loved people who could match his own passion and thirst for knowledge, and he was almost as good a student as he was a teacher (and there's no doubting that he was a very good teacher indeed.) For me, it was a thrill to be able to turn him on to my latest jazz discovery, or present him with a new gem by an old favourite. Hearing an alb in his company, or seeing a movie with him, was certain to result in a GREAT conversation afterwards.

Steve's varied life experience, and in particular his time spent as a fine artist at Chelsea School of Art where he worked on the magazine CIPHER with Jake Tilson, gave his opinions on all things aesthetic a unique and highly personal authority. It also meant that whatever project he worked on - be it apazine, comic strip, review, a workshop, a checklist, photos of flats that his friends lived in - was always executed with the eye and mind of an Artist, with a capital fuckin' A.

There's so much more I want to say, but the truth is that Steve's passing has hit me very hard and at the moment it upsets me too much to think about him not being with us anymore. One of Steve's very favourite comics was THE MAN by Vaughan Bode - a beautifully simple story of loss and friendship. All I know is, Steve will never be forgotten by those of us proud to call him a friend.



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Memorial B-APA for Steve Whitaker
[info]swisstone
2008-02-24 05:22 pm UTC (link)
Apologies for spamming.

Steve Whitaker was one of the stalwarts of the comics British Amateur Press Association. I'm pretty sure that he was always in the apa whenever I was, from about 1990 onwards.

B-APA was wound up in 2004. However, there was a special in 2005, a commemoration issue when Andy Roberts died, to which Steve enthusiastically contributed. We can hardly do less for Steve. So I will be editing a commemorative special of B-APA, to be available at CAPTION, a convention Steve always supported. Obviously, I'd like as many ex-B-APAns as possible to contribute. But I don't want to restrict contributions to ex-B-APAns; I'd like anyone of Steve's friends who wants to be part of this to feel welcome.

If you want to contribute, please contact me at keentony at hotmail dot com. I'm looking for contributions of 1-2 pages, by mid-July, preferably as camera-ready copy. Thanks to those who have already agreed to be involved.

Apologies if you end up seeing this in several places.

Edited at 2008-02-24 05:23 pm UTC

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Re: Memorial B-APA for Steve Whitaker
(Anonymous)
2008-02-25 01:48 pm UTC (link)
I would feel really privelledged if i can contribute to steves memorial. He spent many hours teaching me to draw over the years and i'd love to do as many pages as you want or any other work to help produce this tribute. When my hand stops shaking from the shock of this ill start drawing. Please call me on 07989 924722 or email me richdarkawir@google.com

Thankyou
Richard Whitaker (Steves brother)

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Re: Memorial B-APA for Steve Whitaker
[info]swisstone
2008-02-25 06:57 pm UTC (link)
Richard,

Tried to send e-mail, but it bounced

We'd be delighted to have you in the apa, of course.

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Re: Memorial B-APA for Steve Whitaker
[info]mittelstadt
2008-03-07 11:35 pm UTC (link)
To Richard Whitaker:

Mike Mittelstadt here; Steve's friend (and former Mander classmate) in Watertown, NY. Found your message and wanted to pass along my deep condolences. (I tried e-mailing, too, but it bounced.)

I found out last Saturday by calling to speak to Steve and your father broke the news to me.

The Internet response has been amazing; I regret I do not know know most of Steve's UK friends but hope to "meet" some of them online.

I'm afraid my conversation with your dad ended rather abruptly; I was shocked and nearly speechless; but I felt there was so much more to say, however tough to express. I know you and I haven't met or spoken in about 20 years (when you were an advertising illustrator for one of the Bedford papers); and I'm sad to say that in that time I have not spoken with your dad much when I called to speak with Steve. (I have only visited the UK 4 times since 1975, the last 2 (1995 and '98) with my wife of nearly 14 years, Kim, who met Steve on both occasions.) She liked him a lot he and I used to make her giggle (often at my expense), She would join in the phone chats at Christmas and other times.

Please let your father know I have just airmailed him a letter in which I have attempted to express some of my respect and admiration for Steve (who practically taught me to draw, too, even though we were about the same age). I still dabble in cartooning and, encouraged immensely by Steve, have sold a few gag cartoons in recent years. Before drawing the cartoons I would usually share the ideas with Steve by e-mail.

I expect your father will receive my letter in a week or two. I had the impression he doesn't use online communication.

My prayers remain with him, you and your sister, who your dad said will be taking care of him. He sounded as though he's bearing up.

Anyway, I'm at work right now (I am employed as an editor/paginator for a small daily paper here in the Thousand Islands region near Canada) so I must end this, but I hope to hear from you as soon as possible.

--Mike


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